Being a player isn’t all that’s it cracked up to be. My chemistry professor used to be one in his youth along with his twin brother and he told me that not all the guys hooking up with girls are as happy as they portray themselves to be. Sure it can be great for a while, but it eventually ends up at a brick wall.
All in all, excess of anything is bad. This doesn’t mean you can’t have sex, it’s great in many ways, but just remember not to lose yourself to it as too many guys get played by women solely for that desire. Religious men might retort that you can just get a good girl, but there’s one big problem with that…
There’s no such thing as a “Good Girl”
Well meaning Christian, and other religions men, get fooled time and time again thinking that just because a girl attends church or temple, that all of a sudden means she is God’s anointed angel. Biologically speaking, girls are all the same deep down, but very good at cleverly masking themselves with illusions – elegant dress, beautiful jewelry, “good girl” social image, advanced degrees, religious worship, etc. to cover up their true intentions. Nice girls may have existed in the past, but now with the degenerate westernization infecting countries all over, it has now become somewhat of an antique collectible, a display waiting to be put in a museum in a section of time where civilization was just exactly that – civil.
With that being said, here are some reasons why it may be advantageous to stay single…
1. You’ll Have More Friends
Oxford released a study showing that one of the first things a person loses when entering an intimate relationship is you guessed it, their friends. If you get married, that’s a whole other ball game. Having kids? Forget it. I personally lost my high school best friend after he got married, lost another good friend after he got involved with a woman, and another in college due to a girl who was interested in me and silly me let it go on longer than it should have.
One close Bulgarian friend of mine had a baby. I saw it, and well, as they say the rest was history. Once you’ve lost your friend, that’s it, because after the rope is cut, it can only be tied together which eventually gives out anyway.
Value your friends more than your girlfriend. Don’t seek their permission for hanging out with them, simply tell her like it is, and spend time with friends more so than your girl. Honor and dignity is more easily gained from forming strong relationships with friends that further strengthens into ties that bond. Women only increase your odds of getting into trouble which you will regret later. Of course if you’re the player or a Don Juan, go ahead and do your thing, but if you have religious upbringing, getting involved too early may hurt your morals, and your sanity.
2. You’ll Be Happier & Achieve More Success
A tennis coach I met who was doing financially well, married with a grown up kid, and the whole nine yards warned me of the company of women. He gave the example of one of his promising students who never realized his full potential due to a girlfriend. When single, the ambition and drive was there, but ever since he got that girlfriend, all that went away. Many young fit boys throw their futures down the toilet in exchange for having a girlfriend. Girls want you to spend more time with them than pursuing your goals. Heck, even Donald Trump faced that problem with a previous wife. There are too many real-life examples to list, but you get the point.
Especially today with society brainwashing girls to outperform men on every level, a girl seeing you rise in career infuriates her and she’ll view you as a competitor, and we all know where that leads. You won’t have to worry about some bimbo claiming false rape like with Kavanaugh. There is a long list of successful powerful men in history who have had their careers and lives destroyed by getting involved with the wrong women.
On a side note, you’ll get the added social benefit of being viewed as a man of character.
3. You Won’t Have to Worry About STD’s
AIDS is the least of your troubles, it’s everything else – hepatitis, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, and alike. With more girls embracing promiscuous lifestyles, it can be very stressful when you’re constantly worrying about catching germs. With the influx of undocumented immigrants in the western world spreading God knows what, a guy can’t have fun like his predecessors did in the old days. You’ve got to be more cautious, because too many girls are on drugs and commit other reckless behavior that you’d rather not risk getting involved in.
Remember, this is not lifelong celibacy…consider it a temporary solution until you find that girl worth your time.